I have written before, about my habit of going overboard for major events. Â My childhood was one of poverty and that meant that xmas, birthdays and easter saw all of us as kids, only receiving the bare minimum, and occasionally … nothing at all. Â This translates to me as an adult, often going overboard for my own children.
When the kids were little, I instituted the idea of an easter present as part of our celebration rituals. Â These presents were always necessities (pjs and slippers usually) or books. Â My idea was, that it would cut back the amount of chocolate my children would eat. Â But, it never really worked out that way, because I still fell for all the pretty wrapping and advertising …. my kids end up with a massive amount of chocolate, and presents.
This year, I am being more frugal. Â Hubby has a lot of electric vehicle events this year, that will cost in travelling and accommodation. Â The dollar is low, so I have to pull back my online fabric purchases. Â I am appreciating that the stress of keeping up shopping and managing the household, wasn’t doing me any favours. Â And really, the children are older, and just don’t need a huge amount of chocolate.
I have pulled back this year ….. properly. Â The children have a few basic, non-fancy easter eggs and a bunny. Â They will be placed in some saved paper bags rather than baskets or gift bags. Â I have not bought presents at all, and I haven’t bought anything for me or hubby. Â We need chocolate even less than the kids.
I am hoping to continue being more sensible with spending this year, hopefully this is a good start.
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